There was no my tractor is bigger than yours that I saw in this thread at least up until you purchased. There was no strong arm attempts to manipulate you into a larger tractor.
There was however attempts to help you with careful advice from people with more experience than you.
I was one of the people who cautioned about the BX and thought you may want to consider a little larger. I have used a garden tractors, BX,
B6200,
B2620, Ford 2N, Ford 5000, a few different rental backhoes and excavators, and a few more that I can't remember right now. My bet is there were other responders who used a lot more different types and sizes than I have.
I really hope it works out well for you.
But I bailed out of this thread at one point based on my impressions of the futility of offering advice to someone who distrusted everything you heard.
Now you are on a mission to prove how you were right in the first place and all those egos with big tractor syndrome are foolish.
Not a good way to introduce yourself to a forum full of people who could help you in the future.
But good luck.