Cliff,
This has been a very interesting experience. The house is large, but I think looks bigger than it really is. For example, because of some design problems we had to make some changes that raised the ceiling height on the 1st floor to 11 feet in the center section and 10 feet on the side sections. Of course, with the added height comes the appearance of "bigness". However, each room on the main floor is really not that big. And, we have some wasted space from the architect snafus.
On the second floor, we have 2 bedrooms for the kids (each of which is larger than the master bedroom on the main floor) and 1 guest bedroom, 3 baths and a large unfinished space over the garage that probably accounts for 25% of the footage on the upper level.
I think the heated / cooled space on the main and upper floors is about 3500 sq feet. But, other than the large bedrooms for the kids, all the other rooms are very modestly sized. There's just alot of wasted space. This has been frustrating as we try to plan for furniture placement.
To me, the real appearance of "bigness" is from the rear because you are seeing the full 10 ft height of the basement walls plus the upper 2 floors. I've told my wife on a number of occasions that the house appeared obcsenely large. I'm almost embarassed. Because of budget overruns, the basement will remain unfinished for now, it appears. Well, except for the workshop / tractor storage under the garage. I'll have the electrical completed in here and have a utility sink installed to make this space functional. We'll just finish the remainder of the basement a little at a time as finances allow.
So, yes, it does look big. No, I don't have a large family. And, I wish the rooms were as big as the appearance of the home would suggest. Thanks for the nice comments and for following along with the adventure.