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Well his family sold off all his cattle last week and called me about the land altho they want subdivision prices (out of my range ) I am trying to buy what I can of the equipment and sawmill the problem is he is watching them tear apart everything he built his entire life and he still walks the farm daily .I asked him if he really wanted to sell and he said "NO I thought my sons and their sons would work this land forever now their putting me in a retirement home " It has to be the saddest thing I have ever seen ! :thumbdown:
It is foolish to think your kids will want to live your dream. It is just that simple. They are putting a lot of emphasis and public awareness on the importance of estate planning around here, as it applies to woodland owners and what they want to happen to their land.
People need to decide if how the land is used in the future is more important to them than what their kids may or may not do. Family meetings to air that out, and written agreements are recommended.
There are ways to preserve open space, agricultural and timber lands if that is what a person wants to do, you can't wait until you are 90 years old however to put those plans into place. It is a sad story but one that could easily have ended otherwise.

A lot of the pictures of barns falling over look like they could have come from my area. I did some work for someone that had bought a house with a pretty good size barn in need of repair. He said from a practial stand point, the old barns aren't much good. A lot of farmers don't have livestock, there to small for modern farm equipment, so they are more of a liability than an assest. The people that are keeping them up its more a matter of pride than anything else.
My father bought a large piece land in Salem,Franklin county, Me many (60 +)years ago and built a cabin and barn on it .just a few years ago he bought another larger adjacent piece to stop a gravel pit from going in .We would NEVER consider selling it !
It's always good when it works out that way. You and your father have a commitment to the land. The trouble is, if you wanted your children to take it on, are they interested, can they make a living from it, or even commute to a decent job from that location? Too often, the answer is no.
I doubt if my sons, ages 39 and 35, have any interest in parking themselves in the hinterlands of Western Maine. They didn't grow up here and have no anchors in the community. Time will tell. I do ask them about it once in a while because it affects what I might do with our lot.
Sorry to get off the topic of barns, but the future of aging barns is in the hands of the next generation to some extent.
For Barn Lovers only.... You don't need to check 'Snopes' to see all these barns have seen there better days ! :tombstone:
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