so when you hold the red button down (yes you have to hold it down continuously) you only open the pilot light valve. so the air only leaks out at a slow rate. (the rate it takes to keep the pilot light lit)
the torch method thats mentioned does 2 things. 1) it heats the thermocouple so that it opens the "big valve" 2) it acts as the pilot light to lite the gas coming from the "big valve"
as soon as the pilot light is lit and has warmed the thermocouple for a few seconds (10-15) you can let go of the red button. if your actively calling for heat (at that moment), then the big valve will be open (due to the warm thermocouple) and as soon as you let go of the red button the larger burner will kick on.
Hmmm....
I think I'm finally getting something here.
For the record, my button isn't red

it's the same knob used to turn/adjust the gas burners. The first position allows it to be depressed for the pilot and it can not be 'turned up' any further while depressed.
So, unless that fact changes anything.... let me reword this into my ignorance and see if I'm understanding this.
Currently: If I push/hold my pilot button.... it will take "X" minutes for the air to dribble out through the pilot circuit. This specifically lets air/gas seep through at a VERY slow rate.
If instead, I push the pilot button in while holding a flame (butane lighter for fireplace work ok?? is that a 'torch' or do I need my MAP gas?

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Anyways...if I hold a flame to the thermocouple (and I'm not sure exactly where that is) then heating the thermocouple will allow the "secondary" valve to open and perhaps allow the gas (air) to purge much more quickly through the system.
Side question....
Presuming I am grasping the above... then THANKS!!
If however, my knob is creating a situation by being locked in the pilot location when depressed.... would that defeat the secondary volume logic?
If it would.... could I simply turn the gas on while heating this thermocouple and (hopefully) that would allow the main gas to come on, totally bypassing the logic of lighting the pilot light?
(does that even make sense?)