I will just go thru this and you can take if for what it is worth. I shut off the tractor. Then work the control valve back and forth going thru the neutral position several times. Then disconnect the connectors from the QC connectors on the torque tube of the loader. I have a male and a female Pioneer type, also called AG's 1/2 inch Quick connectors. I then immediately connect the male and female connectors together. Then immediately disconnect them and let the small amount of oil puke out. Then reconnect the connectors together for storage. By connecting and reconnecting the connectors together while they are hot and letting the oil puke out, this causes a deficit in the amount of oil in the lines. It isn't in the lines any more, it is on the ground. It cannot heat up in the sun and build any pressure.
End result, I never, ever, ever have any problem reconnecting the QC's to the tractor when the time comes. I don't have to hit the balls with anything, I just push them on. I know a lot of you fellas struggle with these connectors. I don't. Years ago I used to struggle with them too. I don't do that anymore.
You can take my advice for what it is worth or not.