He already has hyd fluid to the back, so why not add a detent valve with a PB port, and then connect the remotes to the output of the BH valve. , or add a detent valve after the rear remotes. The jumper hose is a safety factor, in case you accidentally shift the levers into a dead head situation.
You can't put the hoe between two valves because the hoe has only a
low-presssure return (no PB). It has to be the last valve in the circuit
(using PB from the last valve) or you can add a valve WITH PB and
use detented work ports. That is an overkill, however, as you can just
use a diverter valve in the circuit between the FEL valve and the
AUX valves. That is how it is sometimes done from the factory. If you
buy an aftermarket diverter valve and put it between the two valves in
the diagram, then that eliminates the use of any down-stream valves (as
does a detented open-center valve). In this case, the hoe OUT hose
goes to a new low-pressure connection on the sump, or T-ed into the
tank port on any of the other valves.
The AUX valve in the photos does not seem to have a PB; only a Tank
port. I wonder where the 3-pt gets its power?
I would not worry about dead-heading, as there is a RV on the tractor (I
am sure), and on the hoe, FEL, and AUX valves.