So, I'll give my experience on vehicles;
2002 Dodge Dakota, 2wd, extended, 3.9L- brake caliper issues on front, was a fight for a while, but that was it in 219k miles; gave to MIL, then had transmission shifting issues
2005 Chevy 2500hd, 6.0, 4x4, before the wreck; wheel bearings, water pump, u-joints, cheap enough if you did it yourself, but they shouldnt be going out in 60k; after a wreck, transfer case issue, speed sensor issue
2008 Chevy Impala; never ending issues; window motors, oil filter connection gasket (cheap enough, but a real job to get too), blend door actuator, electric fan, radiator, transmission kinda slippy, head gasket, another blend door actuator. Think it made it 130k, before we traded it, running, with a bad head gasket,
2012 Dodge Durango; transmission cooler/AC radiator combo, was it before 180k, then a dang electric-computer brake controller-transmission controller thing that cost $1200, and that's rebuilt, it's no longer made
2002 Toyota Highlander, something like 220k before gave to MIL. Nothing, just change brakes, do oil changes. The suspension was needing love when we gave it to MIL. AC did quit around 225k, but I don't know if that was a major failure, or just needed recharged
2 separate 2015-2017 Ram 1500; work vehicles, lifter problems lead to auctioning low milage, non running trucks
2001 Dodge Dakota 3.9L. 4x4 county truck; around 200k miles, zero issues, brakes, oil changes very 7.5-15k miles
2015ish Ford 150, 5.0, county truck; I intentional bear the Heck out it, cause I got it right when they cut our pay 3%; I ran that think in 1st gear up to 55mph to warm up in morning, redlined in reverse multiple times, just beat on it like a rented mule, nothing in first 60k, before I left county; not neglect, intentional abuse

Several 2017-2020 Ford Explorers, heavy use, tons of idle, hoping curbs, ecr, work vehicles, not intentional abuse, but heavy Use, no issues. Had 2 coworkers ahve "infotainment system' issues, that company said, we aren't paying $1500 to fix a radio... we'll, that controls AC, cruise, ect; so they did have to fix
Sons 2003 Chevy 1500hd, 6.0, 2wd, AC compressor, window regulators, wheel bearings, total front suspension and steering components, all within 150k