EDITED BY ROY
I started to lean on one with a 15/16" socket, 1/2" extension, breaker bar and a piece of exaust pipe "cheater". I saw the extension start to twist, and wimped out and used his 3/4 stuff because I was afraid I was gonna break that extension. But now that I've busted 'em loose once (and worn the paint off the threads), they shouldn't present that kind of challenge again, so perhaps 1/2" will do from here out.
Oh, and Roy - the factory did exactly what you did - marked the lug bolts / rims so I could tell if any had moved. Thinkin' it through, I think I'll do that with the nuts on those carriage bolts.