farmgirl19
Super Member
mossflower; It is good that your wife will meet. I also think it good if a pastor is present. It might keep the meeting productive, with emotions, frustrations and any anger in check. It will take productive meetings, to actually get things resolved, so that you both can move forward. Just going back to how things were, would be a disaster, since they got you in this mess to begin with. (Not placing blame on either party, just saying, whatever was before, led to discontent, so things should never go back to being "like they were before".)
I see the meeting as a positive, if you are both willing to truly talk about needs and expectations, and what each is willing to give to make it work.
That's my $0.02. Won't buy you so much as a cup of coffee, but I am pulling for you both.
63*, going to 89*. I'll take it for July 3, ANYTIME! Working in barns was really nice yesterday!
I see the meeting as a positive, if you are both willing to truly talk about needs and expectations, and what each is willing to give to make it work.
That's my $0.02. Won't buy you so much as a cup of coffee, but I am pulling for you both.
63*, going to 89*. I'll take it for July 3, ANYTIME! Working in barns was really nice yesterday!