well, I have something positive to report, so I'll check in. After three days in a near coma, my wife woke up yesterday morning at 6am, called me
immediately, asked where she was, why she was there, and when could her breakfast come. the latter told me she was doing fine.
Lot of prayers were answered, I didn't think she was going to wake up, she kept getting worse each day, couldn't talk, and all apparently due to a serious infection that can mimic the conditions of a serious stroke.
I just spoke with her, the nurses had come to give her a bath, and there is a chance she might get released today. And for awhile anyway, I need to get an aide in here for several hours a day. She doesn't want someone 'new" in our home, but I had to put my foot down on this, and my family is all over my case to get help in. I really hurt both my neck and my back on Sunday when she collapsed, and I can't do it any more.
so I've got some good news to report, my sweetie is doing better, if only for a little while, we all know the score, but if she gets home today, that's all I care about. I might even take her directly from the hospital to the garden, she is so curious as to what is popping up. That garden was the best healing/psychological aide for her; focus on the living and the fun and the good. We all have to.
I've been a person of faith all my life, but my faith does not connect the dots between prayer and another person's health. I have always felt that God's calming presence within us helps us deal with whatever comes our way, not so much for healing the physical part, but putting us at ease and helping us deal with what we have to in the most loving manner possible. Many see a direct connection between prayer and healing, and I'm ok with that too.
But I can say from my heart that from my perspective, prayers are love, and love can do wondrous things.
You all have a wonderful day. I was allowed to go back on my previous arthritis medicine today, one month after the operation, and I'm hoping that my body will stop vibrating every time one of these storms come through. Yes, I can really predict the weather, or more accurately, dropping air pressure.
hmmm, three loads of wash, vacuum, better get moving. Slowly, slowly.
Zippity do da