I thought the topic of this thread was making a winch out of a car diff. If that is the case, then welding the spider gears would be the easiest method. I have never seen a Farmi/ Fransgard/Uniforest/Norse/ winch so I cant comment on those. I have seen and used winchs made with rearends and every one I have ever seen had the spider gears welded to make them solid lockers and they worked pretty dang good.
Personally, IF I was going to make a winch for a tractor, I would copy the winch designs that was used on the old BigStick and Kennemer pulpwood loader. They used a cable drum and brake drum mounted on a shaft, the brake drum had a large sprocket mounted on it that was driven by a pto chain drive. To engage the winch, there was a master cylinder and brake line connected to the wheel cylinder in the brake drum that when depressed, it would engage the brake shoes to the drum and make the cable drum rotate. With this method, you could feather the brake lever to control speed and power and if released the winch would stop. Another advantage to the Bigstick design is that it would be a lot lighter than using a car/truck rear end