Some people don't understand the flow path and GPM's when trying to use more than one spool or valve at the same time.
On a tractor, it is rare that you need to use more than one spool or valve at the same time. A few seconds will not destroy your operation when selecting different spools or valves. .
Even the guys at WR Long do not understand the flow through the 3rd function. What they say is that when using total flow to the cyl, that there is flow from the PB port going through the 3rd function. There is no flow to the PB when full cyl flow is being used. When the relief is activated, the flow is also diverted to tank.
I am not sure he realizes that if all pump flow is going into a cyl, there is flow coming out the cyl, but, it is going to tank, and nothing goes downstream until you let off the lever, and then the pump flow now passes through the PB port for downstream use.
It doesn't take but a few seconds to fill a cyl and you are ready for the next spool operation.
When using a solenoid valve with subplate, all flow exits the T port including the cyl flow and pump flow.
Downstream valves, when fully activated, will affect all valves up stream by the back pressure generated, as that fluid is competing with the pump flow.
If you could use all spools in parallel, what would happen would be that the hyd component requiring the least pressure would operate first and when that component is satisfied, the next hyd component will operate. If more that one hyd component is equal, then the flow will divide.
Loader valves with a parrallel setup can use two spools at the same time, and the flow is divided.
If you half loader spool, you can also use the 3rd function at the same time, such as loader lift and
grapple.