There really is a lot already written about this issue.
The Kubota M series is pretty heavy and so I'd want to know how the user intended to use the
grapple before making a recommendation. If it is just to pick up debris laying around or lifting felled trees then the basic light duty Markham/Gator etc would do fine IMO. If on the other hand the
grapple will be used to root rake or dig out trees then I'd opt for the heavier duty steel in the 48 inch version to give it more rigidity as the momentum with a M would be quite a bit and striking an unseen stump or immovable rock/object assymmetrically would put quite a bit of twist on the
grapple.
I know Jake and others are happy with their wider heavier grapples but I've still in five years never seen anyone with a bigger
grapple post a photo or describe something they were able to do that our little bitty 48 inch grapples cannot do just as well. The concerns about hitting an unseen object with the edge of the
grapple are multiplied when using a
grapple that is wider than the FEL arms too. The notion that you cannot drive into brush with a narrow 48 inch
grapple are bogus. I do it all the time and come out with huge loads.
Here is my latest capture with my 48 inch Millonzi (weight 280lbs). I could only lift the stump this high and as my loader is rated for 2700lbs to full height at pivot pins, I'm guessing this stump weighed something close to 3000lbs. If my
grapple weighed 500+lbs, I probably would not have been able to lift it and move it.