Ground prep is one of the most important steps. Don't pour on clay. In a perfect world 4/6" of drain rock/ or DG over a compacted, compacted, soil that is damp not wet. You can use wire mesh but I woud attach rebar with bailling wire every 3 to 4 feet both ways to keep the mesh strait. Use the little concrete blocks wired to the under side of the rebar to keep it elevated. Or just order fiber in the load of concrete and forget the steel. If your ground prep is done right 4" of concrete is fine. A little thicker along the edges is good. If you pour at a 3" slump 3,000 psi mud will work. I would order 3,500 psi at a 4 to 4.5 " slump with the right crew of finishers. You can play it on the safe side and order 4,000 psi and go up to a 5.5 " slump easer to work the mud, all depends upon the crew you have. Have at least one person who does finish work for a living there to tell all your buddies what they need to be doing. The more pro finishers the better, to a point. They have the right tools.
Concrete is a perishable product with a short time span to work with, then the results you have a life time to live with. Good luck.