The secret is in the measuring of the glasses to your eye to what you do.
I had all the problems you guys are talking about till I went to a guy at Costco. He had a super duper computer that measured the eye and strength I needed, but the art cam in when he asked about my usage. He asked where exactly was my computer monitor, how far and what angle, where are the tings I read on a desk or on my lap mostly, when driving etc.
He designed the glass to fit my needs with a tri focal. top for far while driving, middle for computer work and lower for reading.
WOW what a great combination works perfect fro me. I only have one pair and they stay on from when I wake up till I go to bed.
He also tried a thing with contacts where he put one contact in my LEFT eye ( because I'm right handed ) and a weak lens in my left eye. This supposedly tricks your brain. One eye for far and one eye for reading close,
I never did get used to that combo, he did say it would take time, nah, not for me.
Again the secret is going to someone who knows what the heck they are doing. I paid four times as much to a guy who did a lousy job compared to the great job at Costco for $200.00 including the eye test.