My experience. We live totally off-grid.
First we built a 640 sqft cabin as a place to live and store stuff while we built the real house. For power, I built a Solar, PV system with inverter and battery storage. Our 6 panel system was 730 watts and would average about 3kw/day. We do have wind and at least 4 neighbors have wind generators of various types. I had hoped that adding a 400 watt AirX would give me a little plus up, especially at night or during other periods of less sunshine. For the cost of the AirX, tower, wiring, I could have added 2 more PV (250watt) and been reasonable assured of generating another 1kw/day. My AirX never came close to producing that. In fact, it's production was never even measurable on my existing equipment in spite of the visibly glowing LED I could see at night. This was disappointing for 2 reasons: #1 - I knew what I'd lost by chosing the AirX instead of 2 PV, but even moreso, #2 - I had hoped a wind generator would be a good complement/backup for the big house. Someday, when I take that system off line, I'll have to find a new home for AirX or suck up the loss. The Pvs I can add to my other system.
The house we built is also a SIP system and we have R20, both walls (ProTec) and roof (Galvamet). Not a great concern as we have no HVAC, neither heat nor cooling. We do have reasoned cross ventilation, ceiling fans, and propane fireplaces. Nearly all lights are cfl or florescent. Most of the cfl are 9w. Many we bought on sale, all bought as original equipment, not replacements. So the ceiling fan fixtures have 4X9=36w vs 4x60=240w. We also practice lots of conservation, such as power strips and unplugging stuff.
The power system for the big house is 36 PV, 4.5 kw, inverters and battery storage. We currently use about 13kw/day, but know that will increase once everything is installed and we start up the pool. For backup, I added a 24kw diesel genset, which I've run 100.8 hrs over the last 18 months. Would prefer RE backup. Still looking at hydro option, but that's a different story. Had my above experience with wind been positive, I would consider it. Given that it appears a suitable wind generator w/tower would run about $20K initially, it doesn't seem feasible. Even if red diesel stays near the $5/gal level, that's 4000 gallons - 10 years worth at 1gal/day.
JMHO, but don't see grid tied wind combo as having much value, especially if there is no battery backup.
David