When I got my first 3 point shredder, I noticed immediately that 'something ain't right'. The shredder's connection to the tractor 3 point was rigid. What I call a standard, rigid, pyramid. As other have mentioned, there needs to be give when the shredder tail wheel rises.
So many others here have mentioned removing your toplink. Poor suggestion in my eyes. You did not buy a hydraulic top link, or even a manual one to be taking it off and on. In my situation, it was only the shredder that had a problem so I modified my shredder. Each one that I have owned. On mine there were two steel bars that extend from the top link connection point to the back of the shredder. For each of these bars, I cut out approximately 2 feet. In their place I added a heavy (3/8") chain. You can either drill and bolt the ends to the remaining bar or you can weld. Be careful to make sure the length of each 'bar+chain' are equal in length. This way your toplink does what you want it to do and never has to be removed.