</font><font color="blue" class="small">( Now for the 3PH I have what is called a justimatic with a toggle switch that moves it up and down it has several wires running from the box but I can only see 4 wires that are used and they are connected to the selonoids that works control valve on the side of the tractor and its located on the rear right hand side. )</font>
Have you checked in the Grey Market Tractors Forum? There are lots of Shibaura owners in that forum and several D28Fs. There is a discussion there about the 3PH switch and how it can be replaced with toggle switches. Some of those guys may even have added TNT to their tractors.
Of course, we may still be able to help you, but if you don't know about the other forum, you might just be missing a great resource. They might be able to give you experienced advice about the correct remote hydraulic hookups and availability of parts for your cylinders.
On my tractor, the toplink is a 2" cylinder and the tiltlink is a 3" cylinder. You'll want to make sure your sidelink/tiltlink has enough lift to far exceed the lift power of your 3PH. With implements bouncing around, the instantaneous shock loads can be very high. I'd suggest using a larger diameter cylinder, but others may have a better solution.