Yes, pictures are correct.
For fill; down here, we typically would use any relatively clean material, with as little clay, or organics is fine. Basically, you want to avoid any rocks larger than your fist, and any roots bigger than your finger as a rough guideline. If you ever intend to place an outbuilding on this, things change, but my understanding is you want to have a yard area. Honestly, if you can 100% say you never intend to build a structure on top of this back fill; you can put a pretty good bit of roots, clay, rocks, in the lower portion of the fill; say, the bottom bit of 4 ft; but it's not ideal. I dont mean dump your tree stumps there, I mean, that bottom, some roots, head sized rocks, and all will be fine. As you get to the top 24" you really don't want expansive clays or roots.
As far as water; rain is better than sprinklers; but there is no replacement for proper soil moisture when compacting. As a Very general statement; you want it wet enough that you can form a ball, but when you drop the ball, it crumbles apart. This is why any road project you see, there will be water trucks to get the moisture if it's too dry.