I thought I would give everyone an update. I am married to "Mrs. Douglas". We have been researching tractors for months and have recently been visiting dealers and very briefly test driving specific tractors. We have come to the conclusion that a Deere 4520 and Kubota
L5740 (both open stations) would be perfect for what we need/want. I have received a price quote from the regional Deere mega-dealership in this area (north Texas) and a price quote from one of three small Kubota dealerships. I have loaded both tractors with all the extra valves and extra remotes to operate the grapple and give us as much flexibility as possible in using additional implements down the road. The 4520 came in $3,000 more than the
L5740 if we pay cash and only $1,500 more if we use the 0% financing (Deere's price is the same regardless). I'm still not through pushing each to do better on price but I was surprised they came in this close based on what so many other people have found where the Deere is much more expensive. The Deere dealership is a huge regional dealership that has 12 locations and just dominates the area. The 3 Kubota dealerships in the area are all small, low overhead dealerships that are so small that I (not so much Mrs.) worry a bit they can put everything together properly and be there down the road for service and parts if needed. All in all, the 4520 and L5470 are so close that we would be happy with either. If we had to pick based purely on tractor, we would probably go Kubota but the dealership strength (future parts, service, ..) pushes me to Deere. The Deere dealership is so big that they even have 4-5 servicing trucks that roam the area.
I would appreciate any additional words of wisdom to get us off the fence so I can sleep better at nights. Thanks.