Here are some of my experiences while shopping for my utility tractor. First went to the Massey - Cub dealer. Told him what I was looking for and he said that they never got anything that big in. That I should look at a Kubota or New Holland. Ok, I go and look at the Kubota - New Holland dealer.
When I am at the Kubota - New Holland dealership, I start to look at the New Hollands and a salesman comes out to help me. Asks if he can help me and I say that I want to look at some New Hollands. He says "you don't want a New Holland, they're nothing but problems". What? "You want a Kubota, they are better and cheaper." This from a New Holland salesman.

Ok, I want this size I tell him. We don't stock anything that big, we would have to order one in. Great no Kubotas to look at and the guy does not want to sell me a New Holland. I just left.
So now I go to the John Deere dealer, well not one tractor to look at, zero, nadda.

I go inside and wait what seems like forever before somebody helps me. Finally a guy asks what I want and I tell him. He says to wait a minute, he goes and gets a price and tells me. Well my jaw must have hit the floor.

He said "come back when you're ready to buy and we'll find you a used one".
Now I end up at the Mahindra dealer looking at the biggest thing he has, ask him a few questions and go on my way.
I check back with all these guys off and on over the next few months. What I found was a bunch of people that were not very knowledgeable and would not budge from their high prices.
After giving up on my local dealers I turn to the internet, find TBN, buy Mohammed's on line book (which is great by the way) do lots of research and make a purchase.
While reading on TBN about some of the things that your dealers do for you guys, I think "What world are these guys from" because it sure was not like that for me when I was looking.
I ended up spending over 40k on my tractor and implements and another 10k on more implements since I got my 7520 Mahindra. I found a construction repair place that sells implements but no tractors.

They get all of my business. Maybe one of my local dealers would have treated me better if I had spent that money with them, but I doubt it and they sure didn't try very hard.
I never tried to grind any of the dealers down on there prices. Just asked for the best price that they could give me. I don't want anything for nothing. If I think it's fair then I go with it. But I don't expect list price. I've been in business for myself going on 32 years now and I now what it's like to get hammered on and it's no fun. I give out the best price that I can live with and don't change it. Maybe that is what my local dealers did for me.

I just could not live with their prices and attitudes.
My neighbor spent over 50k at the Kubota - New Holland dealer that I had gone to. Said that they were great to work with all the way up to the point where he gave them the check. (no financing) Then it was all down hill from there.

Needless to say, he is not a happy camper with his local dealer.
Just some of my experiences.
Brian