This Airedale, Clementine, came from a rescue.
This is the "wild card" variable that can be hard to determine what and why any problems occur.
but she was given away by a family with a small baby. She is talking a lot, I mean growling.
Has the dog shown any agression towards humans, or has it always been dog related?
Was the animal kept in a "foster home" after the original family gave the animal up or was the dog kept in a typical animal shelter?
If the animal was in a foster home, what did the "foster parents" report as to the dogs behavior with people and other animals?
but definitely there are few wires crossed in her nuggin,
It can be very hard to determine what past events have lead to the animals behavior.
We had one dog in particular that the variable turned out to be baseball caps worn by men. The only thing we can guess is that the dog had some very bad experiences with a man wearing a baseball cap.
To some extent, animals are like children. Children that come from "interesting" homes can show variations of "bad" behavior. In the long run, the advantage children have over animals is that they can talk. Dogs can't.
that's just not us to treat dogs like a sock and therefore we have to figure out how to deal with the situation on a long term bases.
Your taking the time and trying, hats off to you.
Have you talked in depth with the rescue organization where you got the dog about the animals behavior?
Do a search on temperment testing. The below link is something that I just happen to come across that you may find informative.
Dog Tip: Assessing Shelter Dogs and Temperament Testing
She would be excellent dog in one dog family
Worst case, work with the animal and see if you can find a breed rescue who will work with you to find her a "one dog family".