So I've been studying the service manual that Bruce so kindly sent me, along with reading others threads.
With the factory loader valve, the one that mounts on the side of the transmission, the end plate will provide the Power beyond for the 3rd function.
On this end plate, there are two ports and what they call a diverter plug on top of it. The bottom port will be the Power beyond that will feed the 3rd function, while the top port will connect to the tank port of the 3rd function valve, so it can feed the rest of the circuit.
The trick here, is the top plug. It has to be changed to another style, so the system can work properly. I don't know where you can find this plug, so you may need to ask a dealer for more info on that.
Here is the page from the manual. The diverter plug is the #6 on the Fig 107. With the 3rd function installed, this plug has to be replaced with the plug #1 on Fig 109, so the fluid goes through the 3rd function valve and back to the rest of the system.
This only applies with the factory loader valve. From what I've read, looks like there could be tractor with a Nimco loader valve, this style is probably simpler to connect the third function.