Strange how the more things change, the more they stay the same... I grew up in the city. Regular little house on a regular little lot. Concrete everywhere except a postage size place they called a "lawn". Neighbors on all sides, some so close that you could spit and hit their window. You could hear every conversation they had, and those were usually depressing. ahhhh - the good city life! Great pay, raised a family, nice new cars, and lots of free time to relax (NOT).
Hung in there with the city life for 70 years. Sure - that was where the good paying jobs were. And it took every penny to maintain the living standard. The simple truth is that it takes all you make to stay the same. On the downside, even if you move to an area that has great neighbors, great streets, light traffic, and a hundred TV channels to gaze at all day and night - that will soon all change. The neighbors all seem to migrate to another place, and their old house becomes either rental property that's rarely maintained, or by those that are looking for an opportunity to either impose on what's yours, or simply steal it.
The crime rate never goes down. It only goes up - and often it has a direct impact on you or your belongings.
After retiring, I found a nice place in the country, nearby town of <500, one red light, and 15 acres to do whatever I wanted to do. I can have a big yard to mow, or a little yard, or heck - even no yard if I wish. I don't have a HOA telling me what color I can paint my house, or how many storage sheds I can have. Traffic? Yeah, when there are more than 2 cars ahead of me at the only red light, I get nervous about the 'traffic jam'. That's a little different than sitting in a line of cars a half mile long just to get past one intersection.
There are no Big Box stores within 30 miles any direction of my place. No problem - with Next Day or Two Day delivery of anything I want or need, the only thing that has changed is my schedule. There's always something to do or needs to be done. That's why my 'schedule' is flexible... I can either schedule anything to be done immediately, or tomorrow, or even never if I choose. I'm my own boss with no peer pressure to do a thing, other than my own desire. I don't farm and I don't have a garden. And don't plan to either. I do need my tractor though; if I decide to dig a hole - fine. Or if I decide to fill that hole back up - fine.
Correct that last comment - I don't NEED a tractor, I simply WANT my tractor. Its more fun than the hundreds of cars and motorcycles that I've owned. We have plenty of wildlife to watch and interact with, and thousands of trees. I call that nature at its best. A breath of fresh air doesn't come with an acetic order from someone's nearby factory.
BUT - different stokes for different folks. Often those that grew up in the country yearn for moving to the city, and vice versa. Change is the choice for everyone. So, I wish you Best of Luck with your change.