Why does the South have more posts?

   / Why does the South have more posts? #61  
I am reminded of a time some friends from NJ were visiting... Lisa, the female half of the friends, and I were walking along and when another man was coming towards us, got close, he and I smiled at each other and said "Hello"....
Lisa asked if I knew him. When I said "No", she asked why I spoke to him. I thought it was a strange question and replied, "Just being friendly."
She then replied... "Oh, we never do that in NJ, we just duck our heads and keep walking." Being a small town Texas boy, I thought that very strange. To this day I still don't understand it.

Dougster, you just gave the perfect example clearly illustrating the differences of the Northern and Southern mindsets.

I have seen and experienced this very same thing myself on numerous occasions. My first 19 years spent in western PA, then 23 years in the Army all across the globe and finally the last 23 years here in TX.

That said, when an outsider, i.e., not from the USA, offends or hurts an American then watch out. We will, North and South, stand together as one, history has proven that to be true time and again, most recently 11 September 2001. God bless America.
 
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   / Why does the South have more posts? #62  
I tend to think that peoples reactions to the difference between Northern and Southern hospitality is too often based on very limited experience.
In 1979 my family moved to Wichita Falls Texas from Michigan. I absolutely hated it. I found most people that I had to deal with in Texas to be standoffish and self centered. Lived there for a little over a year and made one or two good friends, but that was it. Never happier to get back to Michigan.
In 1985 we moved to Hampton Roads Virginia and I lived and worked there for ten years. People were very hospitable and other than the traffic:mur: I enjoyed my time there immensely.
My point is that my short time in Texas had me scoffing at the idea of so called Southern hospitality. Nothing could be further from the truth, I had a bad attitude about going there to begin with and was at much at fault as anyone.
I've since come to find that most people everywhere are generally hospitable, but you do occasionally run into the odd butt-hole wherever you may travel.:laughing:

Mark
 
   / Why does the South have more posts? #63  
Certainly attitude has an affect but I'm convinced location is more prevalent... Currently I live near Austin, Tx., definitely a big city but folks are still relatively friendly... when I am in Lampasas, pop. 7K people are way friendlier.... when I am in Lometa, Pop approx. 600, friendlier still...
Now, having said all that, I'm the kind of guy that strikes up a conversation standing in line at the grocery store while my Mom was just the opposite... It's all dependent on one's perspective I suppose.
 
   / Why does the South have more posts? #64  
That's certainly not my experience, and I've lived in Ohio for 60 years. Perhaps you'll share with us the basis for this alleged assessment of northern "hospitality". I mean, you have some experiences that support this right? You wouldn't just have an unsupported bias against people from areas north of you, right? I went to school for four years in what I suppose would be "mid-south" (southern KY) and have spent a fair amount of time in NC, SC, and AL. The pace of life in general tends to be different from what I've seen, but I cannot say I saw more or less hospitality there than here....though it may be been presented differently.

actually I do have first hand experience;) in 1976 my family and I took a vacation traveling up the east coast in our RV stopping in at all major cities along the way, we went as far as Maine/Canada Border, we thought it would be a great experience seeing places such as the Statue of Liberty, Lincoln memorial, Washington monument, the U.S. Mint, Liberty Bell etc,etc, seeing these things were great experience, although meeting the people of these area's were very arrogant, we seen More middle fingers while trying to maneuver our RV in the heavily traffic area then Bird Island has,:cool:
Our worst experience was while walking up a street in Boston to try and find a Place to get a bit to eat, we noticed some loud cussing up ahead 100 ft, was this half size man 5 ft. tall or so had broken a Bottle and robbed this larger man in broad daylight, right there on the street he demand for his money and watch, We all realized then we were in the wrong place, so we slowly left back in the direction we came, We then went back to our RV to leave this city and we sat awaiting to be let out so long that our RV ran hot, while siting there for more than 1 hour Not even the 1st person offer to lend a hand and again we were shouted at many times while sitting there trying to let the RV cool down, we did have one person rudely suggest for us to get a wrecker and have it moved out of the way,:mad: but it finally cooled down and we got out into the roadway, the person who let us out was another tourist from Fl. certainly not a local resident, .............
for each night we parked and stay at the KOA Camp grounds we could tell the change in the attitudes of folks as we got above Virginia the resident host not at all act with any hospitality, just take the money and send us on our way kind of attitude, on the way back down heading toward home we thought we would stop back in some places and pick up some souvenirs, and it seem like at the entrance of every shop their stood someone trying to sale you something you didn't need, in fact at one shop on my way out the door stood this lady with flowers in her hand, she hand me one and I thought how nice she was and thanked her, but as i walked away she chase me down and snatch the flower back away and said something about I must pay for that.:confused2: so much for that act of kindness :D..............
so Yes LMTC with the 18 day travel up North I could fill this topic Full of first hand experiences my family and I had while visiting the Northern states of this great Country, although I think some Folks here might not understand and take offense to what other things I might have to share, so leave me as it is! or you proof to me otherwise ;) by me posting what I did was kinda in fun, But of course we have some that does like to make more out of it than it was meant to be :p
 
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   / Why does the South have more posts? #65  
That's because when Northerner's come south, they go traipsing through a formerly friendly land owner's places, get hurt crossing a barb wire fence and sue the landowner. Or they come to swim in the owner's pool and slip and fall and sue them.
 
   / Why does the South have more posts? #66  
Certainly attitude has an affect but I'm convinced location is more prevalent... Currently I live near Austin, Tx., definitely a big city but folks are still relatively friendly... when I am in Lampasas, pop. 7K people are way friendlier.... when I am in Lometa, Pop approx. 600, friendlier still...
Now, having said all that, I'm the kind of guy that strikes up a conversation standing in line at the grocery store while my Mom was just the opposite... It's all dependent on one's perspective I suppose.

Maybe north or south, the art of conversation is declining? I have had the luck on occassion to sit next to someone who enjoys conversation on a long air flight. It's like the hours just float away. Male/female, doesn't matter. Just let the conversation roam where it will but always within polite boundaries.

On the other hand, sitting next to someone intently focused on playing a game on their gizmo is sort of discouraging. Some would rather interact with a computer program than with a real person. That is strange in a way.
Dave.
 
   / Why does the South have more posts? #67  
We then went back to our RV to leave this city and we sat awaiting

Well, now you know you can't leave Boston :D That has to be one of the worst cities/places to drive in that I know of. I avoid it like the plague.
Dave.
 
   / Why does the South have more posts? #68  
Well, now you know you can't leave Boston :D That has to be one of the worst cities/places to drive in that I know of. I avoid it like the plague.
Dave.

Ha! I'm back again here inside the A/C, about 2 hours all can stand in this heat :confused3:, well in 1976 was the 1st and only time ever being up north:cool: no plans of going back, sorry Northern Folks:cool: I will say though Maine was a nice place to visit, we spent 2 days there, we actually tried to cross over into Canada but couldn't without having proper documentations, would of love to have seen that Country.... The one thing I remember about Maine most of all was how Hot it got in the day and How cold it got at night, must have been 40* change in temperatures and this was late spring about this same time of year as now, the next place I would like to go is Colorado,Wyoming,Montana, but of course after I have visited the great southern State of Texas first, got to get me a genuine pair of "Western" Cowboy Boots and "Western" cowboy Hat:D
 
   / Why does the South have more posts? #69  
Can't say I've ever been north of the M D line. I have met alot of folk from the north that have moved down here.When I ask why they moved here,, They like the weather & everyone seems so frendly down here
 
   / Why does the South have more posts? #70  
Ha! I'm back again here inside the A/C, about 2 hours all can stand in this heat :confused3:, well in 1976 was the 1st and only time ever being up north:cool: no plans of going back, sorry Northern Folks:cool: I will say though Maine was a nice place to visit, we spent 2 days there, we actually tried to cross over into Canada but couldn't without having proper documentations, would of love to have seen that Country.... The one thing I remember about Maine most of all was how Hot it got in the day and How cold it got at night, must have been 40* change in temperatures and this was late spring about this same time of year as now, the next place I would like to go is Colorado,Wyoming,Montana, but of course after I have visited the great southern State of Texas first, got to get me a genuine pair of "Western" Cowboy Boots and "Western" cowboy Hat:D

Yes, we do get some wide temp. swings sometimes. Makes gardening a challenge sometimes.

Those all sound like nice places to visit. I've never found the western boots and hats to be very practical here. If the boots have leather soles, they are slippery as snot on snow. Besides, there are no stirrups on my tractor :laughing: The boot heels are great for catching on the tractor step allowing your face to get down on the ground before your foot. :(

The wide brim hats are always running into tree limbs and giving my head a jolt. They do keep the sun off your neck and such. People into country line dancing wear boots and hats at dances around here.
Dave.
 

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