I just borrowed the 3710 'cause my BH is in Vermont. I though you were the guy looking to upgrade? I must admit that the 3710 was kind of nice .....
Anyway, back to hydraulics. I talked to Mark at V&M. Very helpful as everyone has said. I actually had to rush him off the phone to take a call from the all important (my wife).
They have a bunch of products but I just focused on those applicable to this thread. Those product fall into two categories: diverters, and directional valves. There are probably lots of other terms for these things, but I'll use these terms.
A diverter is used IN CONJUNCTION with an existing valve like a loader valve or aux valve. Where your existing valve controls one cylinder, when you add the diverter valve you can "divert" the control using the existing valve to one or more additional cylinders. Others have explained this better, but to summarize with an example, you could use the diverter to allow your loader lift control to also control your Top and Tilt cylinders. Normally the joy stick up/down would control loader lift, but if you press and hold down a button, that same up/down on the joy stick will instead control the Top cylinder, or with the press and holding of another button it would control the Tilt Cylinder. If you already have at least one aux control valve, you could use the diverter to allow that control valve to operate several cylinders with the desired cylinder selected by the press of a button. The important point is that cylinder movement and speed is still controlled by the existing manual valve, and the cylinder speed can be feathered to move slow or fast or anywhere in between.
A directional valve is having a whole other control valve completely independent of any existing valves. It's just like adding one or two valves to control top and tilt. The important difference between the electric valve and a manual valve is that the electric valves are either completely on or completely off. There is no in-between setting and hence no speed control. To operate a top cylinder, you just press the rocker button and let go to stop. Press the button the other way and the cylinder moves in the opposite direction. This is great provided you don't need any variable speed control. Restrictors can be added to the valve to limit flow and control speed, but you just get one fixed speed setting. You can't "feather " the speed like you do on your loader.
I think all this is what Gordon and others have been telling us all along, but I think I understand it now.
Given this, I'm personally going to pass on this for my TnT control. Without the flow restrictors, I think there will be poor control over fine adjustments of the TnT (Mark at V&M thought so too). With restrictors the circuits would only be usable for TnT and I'd like to be able to use them for other things too.
Oh well, back to trying to find a good place for the big manual valve.