gerard
Veteran Member
Having no kids of my own maybe I should stay quiet on this subject but having been one (a kid), raised in NYC and now moved to the country, I have seen both negatives and positives to both. I think I grew up too quick in the city (was taking the subway and bus to 9th grade in Brooklyn while I lived in Queens) I now live in the country and wonder what it would have been like to grow up in a small town where everyone knew everyones else for the last 20 years. I think it would have been nice. You don't get the sense of community in the city that you do in the country. Easy decision for us 'cause kids aren't in the picture at the moment. If that changed I'd be in the same pickle you are Harv but I THINK I'd opt for the country. (Not much use for my 'bota back on the subways!!