Thanks for the responses. I will try to sum up my answers. When I say shear pin - it's actually a threaded bolt marked SJ 3074 - don't know if that makes a difference. The bolt hole where this goes is a nice snug fit, there is no slop in the hole.
Here is what seemed to work last night: I got into a practice of pulling up about half a foot or so of where I wanted to move snow, drop the blower to the ground, put the shuttle in reverse, downshift the transmission to 1st (I stayed in low range all night) and then I would ease out the clutch and start backing up. As soon as I start moving, I would step on the foot throttle and bring it up to the red triangle on my tacometer.
One of the times I broke a shear bolt I think it was from lifting the blower to the top of the 3 point travel. In retrospect, I think I must have compressed the travel in the blower drive shaft too much and it snapped the bolt in that instance too. The PTO was engaged at that time.
These must be shear bolts because they snap clean as anything. I would find one half sitting on top of the hitch area right below the pto and the other half would be in the collar and I could pluck it right out. Both side had a near perfectly flat surface to them with no bending.
I wonder if the bolts I have are not grade 5?