If this is Charles County, sounds like someone is feeding you some not so good info. Md. Dept. of the Environment controls the water and sewer permits.
We're at the southern end of the Bay, near the York river.
It has been possible to pay the tap fees and not hook up to the county system if the current system is completely functional and not showing any signs of failure. (dependent on where in the county the property lies.
Interesting. I'll have to ask about this.
Another kicker about this is they use the justification that we'll recover the costs in the form of higher property values when we sell. This land has been in my wife's family for 200 years. We don't plan to ever sell. So, all those higher property values mean to us is our yearly property tax bill goes up (faster than normal).
Keith