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I’ve learned parting with things varied from paying someone to haul it away, come and get it free to lucrative selling.

My friends are down sizing and called a highly recommended buyer… he walked through and said $1200 and cleared in 48 hours… she declined.

Over the course of 3 weekends with the help of her teenage neighbor she realized more than 20k, made some friends very happy with gifts and donated a few items…

She was paid well for her time and the teenager got a percentage of every sale…
 
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I will have to clear out my parents house one day. I have talked with my parents about this, and while it will be work, it will be what it will be. There is a plan in place to get it done and it won't be fun that is for sure. The hard part will be going through their stuff. That is a statement about the emotional aspect of the work, not the physical.

We have had the conversation, and I see it covered in various YouTube videos and "print" media regarding thinks that parents own. Often parents or grand parents want to hand down furniture which kids or grandkids don't won't or don't have room. Getting one's head around this fact is hard for some I think.

I had a better relationship with my parents then with my in-laws. My mom was clear on what she would like passed down or on. Thank goodness for that. It made it easier when my girls stepped in to help, turned a sad time into a better time.

My in-laws, not so much, I still have some of their stuff in my house. My MIL is still alive but back in FLA. Her stuff is still here. I am a patient person but the burden is on my family due to inactions on the in-laws part. Some people just cannot let go.
 
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It can be mental… I bought a home that was in process of condemnation in a nice neighborhood… nothing wrong with the home other than home and grounds became a dump… picture all the room piled solid 3’ high from end to end and back yard even more…

Me buying the property reset the clock and one 30 yard dumpster a week for 9 weeks cleared the property…

There were chest freezers the 9 year old granddaughter didn’t even know existed full of steak and hamburger…

95% was simply garbage… the other 5% were done bonafide antiques and tools… got a like new gold in color 1950’s Craftsman Table saw I still use.
 
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When parents or friends pass, always difficult on figuring out what to do. My Mom grew up in Missouri, family moved to northern Virginia in the late 30s. In 1998 she decided she was moving home, back to Missouri. Helped load up a rental box truck, 30 boxes or more and took them all the way out to Springfield MO where she rented 3 bedroom brick rambler. In 2013 she passed and I went out there, sorted things out with funeral home, etc., rented a box truck and brought back all of those boxes, she never opened more than a couple. After a few years I invited some friends over and we went through all of the boxes, nothing exciting, hand tools and such, and everybody got parting gifts!
 
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My father was the opposite, he sold or got rid of everything and didn't ask my brother or I about any thing. So a lot of my grand fathers and my tools disappeared...
 
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The home inspection is scheduled for tomorrow. I'm not expecting them to find much of anything. Unlike when we sell our nearly 50yo house. I'm sure we'll have a lot of little things that they try to nickle and dime us on.

The good thing, if you could call it that, is on Sept 21, we were hit with a massive storm, with 70mph hail. It caused $72K in damage to our house and buildings. So, all the buildings will be getting new roofs, gutters, wind turbines, window screens, and a lot of painting and staining before we list it. At the same time all that is done, we'll try to identify any other issues that need attention and do them at the same time.
 
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The wife and I have officially started the search for our retirement home. I've lived in our current place since 1997, but the city has been constantly sprawling in our direction, annexing us into city limits about 15 years ago. Now I see them running utilities, water, hydrants, sewer along the highway up to our area. Ironically, I get high speed fiber installed tomorrow after recently installing Starlink to fix my internet woes. Rumors are that big developments are coming, and a new outer loop toll road will be breaking ground around 2028.

We've gone round and round on what and where we want to settle down. We were ready to purchase our friends 114 acre place in OK when it unexpectedly became available, but ultimately, we had issues with nearby solar farms and wrapping our heads about moving to OK. We've now decided we want to remain in N. TX and have scaled back on acreage to 20- 50 acres with a house and workshop. We're focusing on an area between Bowie and Muenster TX. It's a nice area with some rolling hills and vista's and often gets termed the "Hill Country of north TX, due to its Czech influence.

We looked at two places yesterday that were very close to one of our departed TBN brethren, Jimmy Inman's place in Sunset TX. One was a 2021 custom home built in the modern farmhouse style with some really nice features, including a dog washing station. I really liked all the attention that was made to the utilities, like buried electric line, buried propane tank, all downspouts piped away etc. The walk-in utility attic with the air handlers was impressive! It also had a nice outdoor kitchen and patio, although it faces west. We'll have to figure out something with shade tree's, shade sail to make it more enjoyable. You could tell there was attention to all the details though with tall, coffered ceilings, hand scraped wood floors, tile work, counter tops etc. Even the HVAC grills were fancy. I'm trying to figure out how a redneck like me with all my game animal mounts can make it work :D

The second place was a little older, but it had more acreage. It had some nice upgrades, but there were other things that still needed to get upgraded. The windows were all starting to lose their seals and need replaced, the bathrooms were outdated, and the recent kitchen remodel left something to be desired. We've scratched this one off our list.

So far, the modern farmhouse is our front runner. We're going to look at 2 more places this afternoon.
The past couple years we have been looking at where we want to have our next home ( retirement location ) We have been looking primarily in the North East Fla area.. Fla is a weird place.. Unless you are in a HOA.. You may have a beautiful place but next door may have 15 broken down cars, boats and rv in the yard that are surrounded by 1k pounds of empty bud light cans.. The HOAs are a pita .. and can be expensive..but they keep that type of stuff in check. .. But I don't thing I can cope with neighbours 6 feet away. Insurance is also difficult in Fla now..as well as property taxes.. So the search continues for us right now.
 

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