Without a doubt the stump jumper is flexing everytime you hit the bolt, take a good bottle jack and jack it up on the stump jumper as close to the bolt hole as you can get it, then hit the bolt with a brass pin or whatever driver that you have and it will come right out. Many years ago I was in the same situation and had beat till I was give out, my dad rode up on his horse and saw what was going on and asked me if I wanted that bolt out, I told him that I wanted both of them out, so he told me get him a bottle jack and in just a minute the bolts were out, he got back on his horse and rode off never said a word about it, I wish he was still here to get advice from.