David, there are some post hole diggers that come with a "downforce" kit, but most do not. There are also some (but few) tractors that have down force on the 3-point. Normally, the only thing that exerts any downward force on the 3-point is the weight of whatever implement you have on (or just the weight of the lift arms themselves). Once an implement contacts the ground, it may exert additional down force. For instance, a post hole digger is an auger and it may screw itself into the ground (in fact, to the point that you have trouble getting it out), thereby pulling down on the 3-point (and then in hard ground, with dull bits, etc. you may have to add weight to it to get it to go down at all). With plows and subsoiler, the point enters the ground at an angle that tends to pull it down as the tractor moves forward, but the 3-point hitch doesn't push it down.
You can prove this to yourself quite easily. With no implement on the 3-point, raise or lower it to some point in the middle; neither all the way up or down. Then try to push down on it manually (won't go), but lift up on the arms and you can raise them manually, and when you turn them loose, they fall back to the same height you started with.
Bird