SteveV, If I understand you correctly, I usually reply to a particular post. At the top, in the middle, where ever. My Post will always show up at the bottom, but I think most click the box "Email all replies to my real email address". That way the person I am responding to will get an email.
If I'm just offering my 2 cents, or a general comment, I reply to the person who started the thread, or the last person's post.
The time will usually show that posts were done at or near the same time. Unless like me they type a sentence, go get a cup of coffee, type a little more, go to the bathroom, and by this time AOL has dropped me off line, and so on. I don't think anyone gets too worked up about any of this.
Ernie
"I dont like being hemmed up, I think we should march out onto that prairie" David Crockett