The manufacturer is not the be-all and end-all on everything. If it was, we would never see lemons. The 100K spark plug is a joke. In my '97 Escort, which had 100K plugs, the plugs were way out of spec before 50K. Luckily, it was easy to get to mine and install the antiseize that the factory never seems to put on, which obviously becomes an issue when the plugs seize in the head at high mileages. And they do.
Talk to techs (mechanics) in the field and see what long-term damage these excessive maintenance intervals are doing. The manufacturers specify 10,000-mile oil changes because they know that all too many owners will not bother with much essential maintenance anyway. You can get away with 5,000-mile changes with conventional oil--barely. Granted, Click and Clack of Car Talk radio show fame started advocating 5,000-mile changes several years ago for environmental reasons. The problems come when you go 6,000--let alone 7,500 or 10,000--miles between changes with conventional oil.
It's true that on many engineering details techs can't second-guess factory engineers as they once could. This doesn't mean that everything is peachy-keen with the factory's designs and recommendations. One tech shop magazine recently discussed a problem with a secondary oil seal in a certain family of Honda four-cylinder engines that pops loose on its own with little or no cause, leading to massive oil leaks and risk of engine failure. The design could have been better and was finally fixed by the factory on newer engines, but not before many thousands of these hit the street with a seal that was a ticking time bomb. The article discussed ways of rigging a stay to keep the seal in place. This was Honda, of all outfits, a company with an excellent engineering reputation and manufacturers of Acuras with 10,000-mile oil change intervals. Certain Chrysler and Ford engines are notorious for early head gasket failure, which is inexcusable today. At least one very expensive German car has underdesigned ball joints that fail after 30,000 miles or so, necessitating replacement of the whole lower control arm at many $$$, according to one syndicated car care column. Techs in the field discovered this problem. When these same techs have valid things to say about the differences they see in engines that go too long between services because the manufacturer says to do this, we need to listen.
Go ahead and change your oil every 10,000 miles if the manufacturer says to. But don't be surprised if the engine isn't doing so well after 75,000 miles or so. Ditto for tractors and trying to increase hours between services.