We are renting a Toyota RAV4 now and I’m hard to impress but I like it. It’s a Hybrid, 2.5 liter engine. I wouldn’t be that thrilled with it except for the fuel mileage. It’s getting 39mpg mixed driving. It’s maybe a little small but maybe not. They make a Highlander which looks like it gets 35mpg. It looks like Honda makes the CRV in a hybrid but that’s it for them. The CRV looks similar to the RAV4 in size. I think I’d prefer Honda or Toyota but I’m not brand loyal. Any other ones we should look at?
Depends on what you're looking for. (I know, DUH . . . )
Do you want stiff and sporty, fast, plush, spacious, kid hauler, dog hauler, etc.?
What tech features do you want? Make a list. Self-parking, Adaptive Cruise and Lane Keep Assist (pretty standard now), Heads-up display (super nice), Heated / cooled seats (front and/or rear), Heated steering wheel (nice!)???
And first, do you want / need a 3rd row? This will focus your search.
We had a Pilot Elite with a 3rd row. Never even unfolded it. Was never used. Have a CR-V that's nice and gets 30+ mpg. Ford Escape Hybrid has been a daily beater for me for years. Wife drove Hondas for many years but decided she was ready for something different. Within the last 6 months we test drove about everything -- Honda, Acura, Toyota, Ford Explorer, Kia Telluride (like it), Hyundai Tuscon, BMW X5, Audi, Mazda, Mercedes GLE, Volovo, Subaru, and finally Lexus. Wish we'd tried it first! I found one in stock, out of state, and we drove down and bought it the next day. Lexus RX350 Hybrid with premium luxury interior. (NOTE - NOT a plug-in hybrid.) Super nice and comfy ride, no 3rd row, self-parking, all the current tech except "hands free driving", 30+ MPG. Dash screens and controls are well integrated and simpler to operate than several of the other brands too.
Also recently picked up a 3 year old Grand Cherokee to upgrade my daily beater. All the options except self-parking. Wasn't really looking for a Jeep, but in the top trim levels it's a really nice ride -- MUCH nicer than Cherokee, Liberty, and Patriot models I've driven as fleet vehicles or the old '95 Cherokee Country model that we used for our foul-weather vehicle years ago. No comparison -- they've come a long way, Baby.
If you go toward a mini-van, the Honda Odyssey is worth a look. When you fold down the seats that thing is like a small cargo van.