Let me give you the specs for a JD backhoe, because we can all agree that JD is quality and they have been doing this backhoe thing for a while. A model 47 stabilizer cylinder is allowed 0.3 inch (8mm) per minute as measured at the rod. Under that and JD will tell you that your backhoe is fine. 0.3" as measured at the rod is a bunch, a patient man could sit there and watch it settle at that rate. That is per minute, not per hour. The main boom cylinder is allowed 0.6"/minute on that same JD.
If it were my backhoe and was near the max specs, I'd not be happy. That seems like too much leak-by travel. But you can be sure that a loader that is left 2 feet in the air at night and is on the ground in the morning might well be in specs. Even if left over lunch it might be in specs. These piston rings are lubricated by oil, there needs to be a little bit of leakage to make them last.
But you alluded to an important point. Why do some loaders left in the air stay there for weeks? I haven't a clue....
I'm no hydraulic expert, there is my disclaimer.