This is very frustrating. J.J., I understand hydraulics better than you apparently think I do, but I still can't explain what is happening, and you haven't either. Don't get me wrong here, I want and appreciate your help, but we don't seem to be on the same page. As far as a diagram goes, let me try and put it into words:
Tank to pump inlet
pump outlet to manual splitter valve
splitter valve (one side) to FEL controls
FEL controls out to cylinders, one port back to tank
splitter valve (other side) to adjustable pressure relief valve
pressure relief valve, one side to BH, one side to tank
BH controls, IN from pressure relief valve, OUT to tank
I'm not very good at drawing but if that doesn't explain it let me know and I'll try to draw it out for you.
Once again, what I don't understand, especially if big or small pump makes little difference except for potential GPM, is that with the small pump the BH works fine, at all engine speeds. There is little or no engine loading with BH valves in neutral and BH selected with splitter. Then, changing nothing else except the pump, (to the larger one) and with the engine at idle, engine RPM will drop, indication some loading when the BH is selected with the splitter. This is with only a minimal pressure adjustment at the relief valve. And at this setting the BH has very little power. It is obviously not getting enough pressure. I have not cranked it down to a higher pressure because there is obviously something going on here and I don't want to damage the BH. That's why I have asked you if it is possible that the Kioti controls could have small enough passages that they overly restrict the flow of the larger pump, causing the back pressure that would cause the engine loading. If this is the case then the relief valve in the Kioti controls would/is opening, causing the noise that I'm hearing and the loss of pressure and flow to the BH. Given that the ONLY thing that has changed in the two scenario's is the size of the pump, that's all I can come up with, and that's why I asked you if a flow control valve might be the answer.