Is evil or good really there?

/ Is evil or good really there?
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#21  
I think you just proved my point Terry. Your description is from the perspective of the victim.

On the other hand the predator put at risk long term gain for short term gain. Which is an act of immaturity or unsophisitication, right?
 
/ Is evil or good really there? #23  
<font color=blue>I think you just proved my point Terry. Your description is from the perspective of the victim</font color=blue>

<font color=red>Of course my system isn't perfect. It's just simple. If there's a victim then chances are there's a wrong."</font color=red> quoted from your posting on the "How does one decide right vs. wrong?" thread <A target="_blank" HREF=http://www.tractorbynet.com/cgi-bin/compact/showthreaded.pl?Cat=&Board=off&Number=193269&Search=true&Forum=off&Words=wroughtn_harv&Match=Username&Searchpage=0&Limit=50&Old=allposts&Main=192853>Here</A>
 
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???? I didn't post on the thread mentioned.

My perspective is a societal perspective. Okay, all things being equal - a victim and "the evil doer" have their own perspectives on the meaning of the act. But in reality, society has deemed that the "evil doer" is in the wrong. This is consistent in all cultural societies. There may be differences in what is right and wrong, say canibalism for instance. In most societies, this is breaking with the norm. In others, it is perfectly normal. So, does that mean that it is wrong. It depends upon your point of view. There are other examples. However, the important thing is to understand the societal point of view.

In general, most societies treat thieves, robbers, killers, rapists, and most other evil doers the same way - with disgust and an appropriate punishment. I will leave the punishment alone. That is a totally different subject. And, in each society, people understand what is right and what is wrong. A certain percentage of the population will become evil-doers and think that they are in the right. The majority will live a life as best they can and treat their neighbors with respect and honor. And sadly, treat the evil doers the same way until they are one of the victims..... /w3tcompact/icons/shocked.gif

Terry
 
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He was answering harv with the red stuff, Terry.
 
/ Is evil or good really there? #27  
Overall, very well written Harv! I appreciate most of the sentiments, as they are quite familiar - and very old wisdom /w3tcompact/icons/grin.gif. Especially the giving part. Looking outside one's self is very important. I don't think, rationalize as they may, the evil elements of society do look very far beyond their selves.

In the giving and getting vein, take the whole class of "victims" we are cultivating, with the help of every other organization out there. Victims, real or imagined, need to get though the process and get back to contribuing to society - that and only that will make them feel stronger and better. Jesse J and Al S would have to get jobs if they couldn't successfully keep many people in the bondage of victimhood.

I do think there exist absolutes, and those who believe so don't fit neatly into the growth and compromise and relationship building you describe. Oops! I hope that doesn't mean only relativists are capable of growth and relationships, and others aren't.

Booo Hoo Hoo, I ain't kewl. /w3tcompact/icons/grin.gif
 
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<font color=blue>In the giving and getting vein, take the whole class of "victims" we are cultivating, with the help of every other organization out there. Victims, real or imagined, need to get though the process and get back to contribuing to society - that and only that will make them feel stronger and better. Jesse J and Al S would have to get jobs if they couldn't successfully keep many people in the bondage of victimhood.</font color=blue>

I've got an interesting observation for you Mark. It isn't all mine. I've done the usuall thing and took a little from here and some from there and put together my position which I'm absolutely postive someone much smarter has already done if I'd only looked a little further.

The weakest part of a society is the first to suffer when there's stress put upon the society. I think we can accept that African Americans as a group have reflected this stress and it's affects. We see the rates of substance abuse of all kinds and the destruction of the family unit there.

But it appears they're only thirty years ahead of the next group to succumb to that stress, poor whites.

The good thing about this is we can see where the African American community is recovering. They have the fastest growing rates as a group in socioeconomic growth and they are also showing leadership in the rate of successful marriages.

The real thing to fear I see is the group in failure mode right now is a much larger group physically in numbers with a lot more political clout. We might be wanting to get the days back when our problem was a small black population instead of a large white population with the same mentality we used to think was racial in orientation.

I have a weird position on raising children. It's from my own personal background of course.

I see us doing it all wrong right now.

As I look back I recall the lessons that were so memorable to me were learned by observation. One in particular that I use often as an example is overhearing some aunts discuss a lady with a bad reputation. Their disdain for that individual marked me for life. I have spent a lifetime trying to avoid having someone talk about me that way.

Contrary to what is popular today I believe the number one role for an adult is to live a good life. If they are doing that they don't have the time to entertain children.

This frees children from carrying the torch of being the center of the universe. This allows them to grow through the phases of being a child. It instills the needed message that one isn't the end all and the world isn't there for them and their wishes and desires.

Now I understand that all the parents today were deprived as children. And that they want to make sure their kids don't have to go through such pain and misery.

But I do have to worry about how these kids who are being catered to night and day on every level are going to cope with adulthood and responsibility to society.

<font color=blue>I do think there exist absolutes, and those who believe so don't fit neatly into the growth and compromise and relationship building you describe. Oops! I hope that doesn't mean only relativists are capable of growth and relationships, and others aren't.</font color=blue>

Mark look carefully at your absolutes. I'd like you to consider why they're absolutes.

Is there any chance that your absolutes are there because relativism on those subjects would be complicated?

Look at your Ten Commandments. They're nice and simple, right? Is there any chance that their simplicity was because it would be too much to explain the reasons for each commandment to where anyone could understand it?

Nah, of course not. That would infer laziness or lack of respect for the intelligence of those the commandments were intended for./w3tcompact/icons/smile.gif
 
/ Is evil or good really there? #29  
Sorry Terry, I was trying to point out to Harv that he seems to contadict himself, his name was accidentally deleted when I edited the post.
 
/ Is evil or good really there? #30  
The weakest part of a society is the first to suffer when there's stress put upon the society. I think we can accept that African Americans as a group have reflected this stress and it's affects.

I can't accept that - not by a long shot!. I see Americans in America, where a hard working person can excel - any person. I would have to squint up reaaaally tight to see that point of view, since we have a great number of Americans of African heritage who have prospered though far greater challenges than other whites. Also Koreans, Cubans, Vietnamese, etc., etc., who have started with far less a time horizon than some of our more established groups. Harv, I see people, not races, not income classes, not ages, not ***. Oh, sure, I've been steeped in the culture of numbering and grouping just as anyone, but I've been taught (by my parents) to take everyone at face value and not make judgements.

And why would you call them "weak" as a group? I don't think they are weak as a group; only the weak ones fail - as do weak willed and victim-oriented people of any group. It is also the grouping and numbering of an increasing array of separate groups that weakens this country, pulls us apart, and why I refuse to put their group-name of choice in front of the word American. As TDR said, "There are no hyphenated Americans". Of course, if the groups and the unique group problems went away, so would the need for expanding government programs, and a whole pile of bureaucrats, intellectuals, and politicians would need to find work. How come you guys who tout this junk are so quick to shout "follow the money" when it comes to other things, but not this?


Their disdain for that individual marked me for life. I have spent a lifetime trying to avoid having someone talk about me that way.

Too bad it was disdain for an individual and not a separation of the sin from the sinner. That's what I am teaching, and trying to model. However imperfectly gained, though, it sounds like you've got your own absolute there, Harv. What do ya s'pose you'd be thinking if they had decided she couldn't help herself because of her socioeconomic, racial, or ****** place in society? Or perhaps they had decided they shouldn't judge? Or she should be free to express herself? Right vs wrong, and it shaped your behavior, whether by guilt or by example.

We have actually agreed on this subject of parents modeling good behavior for their kids, before. So who decides what is to be modeled, and how do we dare to infer what is right and wrong to a young mind, if we do not recognoize some plumb line, some guide, some absolute?


Is there any chance that your absolutes are there because relativism on those subjects would be complicated?

Actually there is a chance that relativism on most of my absolutes would kill me, one way or another, eventually. And while I'd like to take credit for the Ten Commandments, Harv, I feel the need to point out that they are God's, not mine. I find it interesting, and always present in conversations such as this, that Godly truth is relagated to human creation. I'm always answering that, and have just recently done so on one of these deep discussions we have going here. I understand the need or temptation to shoulder God aside, because it's easier to fight a big dumb human Marky than consider that we are flipping God the old bird and ignoring his word.


Is there any chance that their simplicity was because it would be too much to explain the reasons for each commandment to where anyone could understand it?

Preach it, Brother Harv! I do believe that some laws were given in simplicity because of a lack of human understanding - the throwing away of cracked pots, and some of the cooking laws can be explained by our current knowledge of bacteria and so forth. That actually helps me believe the bible was inspired by a greater intelligence. Especially when you find things like the earth being called a sphere way before anyone could have had any way to figure that out.

When you get to the understanding of why we shouldn't murder, or commit adultery, and find that it's O.K. if we understand everything around it, let me know - I could have some fun with both of those! Not to mention stealing, lying, and the rest of them. Just clue me in when you get to a place where that can be understood - I'm sure the good folks at Tyco, Enron, etc. who have no retirement or jobs would also like to understand how some of those commandments can be violated without hurting anyone, too.

Didja explain the concept of electron flow to your little bundles when they tried to stick a fork in the outlet, and then let them "find their own way", or "grow into their own persona"? I think I know the answer. Did you simplify things because you did not respect the little ones? Because you were lazy? Neither does God, in my understanding.

Let's keep this intellectually honest - we're thrashing about in the murk of cloudy reasoning here.
 
/ Is evil or good really there? #31  
Harv,

Stop making yourself a victim.... /w3tcompact/icons/wink.gif

<font color=blue>One of my real frustrations is my inability to speak clearly. If I had one wish after the hot car and neat truck and quick bike and instant weight loss and kewl property with the me built house and the kids all being healthy wealthy and happy, I'd want to be able to communicate effectively.</font color=blue>

Your "long-winded" discussions are very well written and thought out. Please take credit for what you've said. Very articulate and commuicated well. That is why I tossed a dart in my first post at your being a closet philosopher./w3tcompact/icons/smile.gif

I've done some back reading betweent the threads that triggered this discussion and, [censored], it's some good discussion. I need to go back and review them again. This is one of the first "heated" discussions that I've seen on TBN that has been civil and enlightening. No name calling. Nothing getting down to the personal level. Just plain ol' sitting by the campfire pondering the mysteries of life and talking about a lot, but not really solving anything. Three people - three opinions. Ten people - ten opinions. As long as its on a level playing field and no one get hurt, it's a wonderful way of exchanging thoughs, opinions, and, from me, brain farts!! /w3tcompact/icons/shocked.gif

I'm trying to think on how far this post could go. However, I think that most of the major points have been raised and, to be honest, the points are valid - depending on your point of view. /w3tcompact/icons/eyes.gif So, maybe we've taken the discussion as far as we can.... unless someone else has another viewpoint which can be discussed.

Terry
 
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Round n' round we go, eh, Harv? I thought you weren't going to answer this.

Yeah, I agree we can learn from "micro" versions of society. I just think we pick and choose which ones to observe based on our pre-concieved notions. Why not take a peek at other cultural groups who have more recently come "ashore" and marvel at their progress? At the risk of combining a couple separate threads, here, what about the persecution and (and genocide) against the Israelite? Do they act like victims? Is their society falling apart? I disagree that outside influences dictate behavior - it may be a huge influence, even causing failure among some, but it is the free will of the individual that pervades, if recognized, encouraged, and motivated. I got into this discussion by invoking the names of Mr Jackson and Mr. Sharpton - it is precisely their DE-motivation that I dislike, and sought to point out in answering your earlier contention that the African community is a predictor of our future.

Ah, the old environment vs genetics issue - I think it's both; I think I covered that above, with respect to the Israelites, our African brothers, and the honorable/w3tcompact/icons/tongue.gif Jackson and Sharpton. Depends on where you focus - some are affected more strongly by one than another. Proverbs does say that bad company corrupts morals - so I guess that's one for the environment side. And another reason to tar & feather Jack/Sharp.

We ain't going nowhere, I guess, my friend, on scriptural issues. It comes down to accepting or rejecting the Bible as the word of God, and giving it the appropriate authority. I find some accept just about everything else they believe without nearly the skepticism they give the Bible. I wonder about why that is.

Prevention and protection - thanks for illustrating my point! That little plastic outlet guard is a form of commandment, ain't it? And using simple words like "hurt" or "hot", when our little poochies can understand illustrates how we simplify things for the hearer - just like God. Your earlier point was to infer that we might have evolved past the need for "commandments", as well as slightly chafing, if I might assume, against some authority that would dain to tell you what to do. I'm as rebellious as any person, but I recognize I am not God. My ongoing observation is that we seem to find reasons that the commandments are elegantly stated truths that continue to have validity, especially as we evolve and learn more of the cause n' effect, psychological, physiological, or otherwise, that define them.

Like I said - round n' round we go!
 
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From my post on the <A target="_blank" HREF=http://www.countrybynet.com/forums/showflat.php?Cat=&Board=feedback&Number=894&page=0&view=collapsed&sb=5&o=&fpart=1>Off-Topic, Gone?</A> thread on CBN...

This is because OT posts tend to generate point-counterpoint posts, with everyone wanting to get in the last word. Or thinking that "Just one more post will convince them I am right and they are wrong." BTW, I have yet to see anyone have their mind changed because of information exchanged on a chat site.
 
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I just read that entire thread, Mike. The thing that convinced me was the statements that it grows and consumes the board, and it draws us away from participating in other forums. I'm guilty! I agree that this is a great place to beat around ideas; if there is so much interest, could you provide a place for the discussion? I think we all feel pretty safe here, just regular people talking about things - I'm not sure I'd be comfortable on PhilosphybyNet! Aren't these boards all about generating traffic?

Mike, are you going to post this on all similar long-running threads? Or start a new post? Sounds like you guys are getting ready to take action - are you?

W-Harv, I'm gonna search TBN on blacksmithing, then post about building a forge under either Build it Yourself, or Off Topic. I welcome PM if you wish to continue, and I think you deserve a last post on this and perhaps a couple other threads, as I have just finished responding, and don't want to steal the last word.

Other than that, due to the apparent wishes of our gracious hosts, Ta-Ta!
 
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<font color=blue>Mike, are you going to post this on all similar long-running threads? Or start a new post? Sounds like you guys are getting ready to take action - are you?</font color=blue>

Hi, Mark. Nope, no plans to post this message on any other threads. I had not read any of the long running threads here, but happened to look at this one to see how things were going. My post on CBN was strictly my own opinion and not that of CBN, TBN, Muhammad or any of the other moderators. Since the purpose of OTJFF is more a philosophical one, i.e., does it promote or hinder the overall purpose of the web site, a decision to take action rests with Muhammad.
 
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I guess I misunderstood. You have shared your ideas with me about such things in the past.

Don't I learn good? /w3tcompact/icons/tongue.gif
 
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#39  
Evening Mike,

I'd like to offer a different perspective on discussions as the one we're involved in here.

First and foremost, those not interested will not even click on the thread. If you were to look at my version of TBN you would see about half the topics I've never opened up. The different brands of tractors are of no interest to me. But the first group with all of it's subjects are where I start and then work down to here.

I doubt if I'm unique. I think here as in life we all pick and choose. So unless there's a problem with bandwidth I don't see how there is a problem when we understand that only those interested in the topic at hand are gonna view.

To complain about this thread when the participants are adhering to the concepts of being polite and respectful would be like a blue complaining about what the orange guys are saying about orange.

I think if you go back and look at my responses and posts here you will get the impression that I'm responding less to those in the discussion with contrary views from mine. And more to those who are reasding without responding for one reason or another.

I know that Mark or PitBull, members I like and appreciate, are not going to change their perspective on the issue because of what I post here. But, and this is important to me, our discussion will give viewers food for thought. They will see the issue from both sides and they might make a decision different from what they would have if they had only read my side or just the other side.

These discussions are the perfect example of where and what a free market is and can be. When a subject is of no common interest it dies on the vine. We only to have to look at the number of views to see if there's interest, good or bad.

I suggest that as long as the participants are polite and respectful to each other and the subject matter isn't offensive there isn't an issue about whether it's appropriate or not.
 
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I think I jumped the gun on the issue of restricing this OT&JFF forum, and Mike clarified it.

I echo Harv's sentiments regarding online "space" and individual fellowship. Some of us "don't get out, much", especially when we're in the middle of our work schedule, or have something going at home that needs doing before bad weather. Most of the time, it's both. I find access to others here to be refreshing, and conversations of a higher quality than generally found elsewhere. Harv n' I may tussle over whether that's an indication of tractor power or Something Else, but we'll take your opinion, and keep it in mind as we continue.

And I still value your advice, Mike, which I obviously didn't follow. /w3tcompact/icons/blush.gif Maybe from now on......
 

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