BEF, sorry to hear about the land deal not really working out.... We purchased our land here originally with a "well share" with the adjoining property. It was included in our purchase price.
Unfortunately, the adjoining property was purchased by a newly married 20 something couple from the city (Dallas)....
The first month they were running the well dry by putting an oscillating sprinkler on indefinitely trying to grow a lawn. And at the same time, doing the laundry.... and the dishes. They didn't have any clue about being on a well. They didn't stay after dealing with 3+ ft of snow their first winter...
The second owner there tried to pull off a scam to rip us off....
They said they would pay us half the cost of a new well to have us sign off the well share agreement. This was on a handshake. We took out a second mortgage for our new well ($23K 20 years ago). The day the drillers were packing up, he called me and said "we don't have any money to give you, but since you drilled your own well, your thrown off the well share".
Turns out, they were trying to sell the house and the well did not pass for supplying 2 houses. It was a wrong action on their part....
The state engineers office told me that I could drill 50 wells.... if I didn't hook up to them, the well share agreement remained in force. I called the neighbor and with some very descriptive language, told him that information. The next morning, they showed up, went into the house, and turned on all the faucets to run the well dry, trying to get us to hook up to the new well.
I contacted my business attorney, who informed me that the state has a law called "family self help protection" (or something like that) and advised that I could go out to the well and actually cut the supply to their house so that my family isn't affected by their detrimental actions. I went out that evening and chopped their line.
It was fun to watch them come back the next day and go into the house, then come out and look over our way. I waved at them. They left.... repeated the scene again later that afternoon. Our attorney contacted them the next day.
Their actions and blatant disregard backfired bigtime.... the house was foreclosed on a couple months later....
Our 'new' well only lasted 3 years before I had to start hauling water to supplement. Did that for 5 years. When the opportunity for city water arose, we jumped on it! Cost us another $28K to get the water main run, meter, and tie into the system.
Sorry for such a long story.....