President Eisenhower warned us of the "military/industrial complex", but there's also the "medical/industrial complex" that you don't hear much about. Medicine is a business, and the more patient/customers they have, the more money they can make. Baby Boomers have been a boon to them as we enter our "golden years", full of increasing medical needs. It's a bit like letting the fox watch the hen house when it comes to care facilities recommending longer stays for patients.
Then there are the legal aspects. What would happen if the facility gave you the green light to go home, Drew, and you were hurt in a fall or other accident that an attorney could argue would have been prevented had you stayed in their care?
Then there's the elephant in the room that many of us will someday face, especially when it comes to diseases of the mind. You may be physically fit, but if your brain isn't firing on all cylinders, you could be a danger to yourself and to others. You might not even realize it. And here again, the medical/industrial complex decides your fate, and you may not like the outcome. This is where an advocate comes in, someone they have no control over, someone that knows the rules by which such decisions must be made, someone that knows how to blow the whistle when (not necessarily if) the MIC oversteps it's bounds in their best interest, not yours.
Looking on the brighter side, though, it sounds like your making very good progress toward a full recovery. And you don't sound like you're missing on any cylinders, at least to me.
As an aside, my mother had incontinence issues for the last few years of her life. I would fly back home several times a year and telecommute to my job for a couple weeks to give her boyfriend/caregiver a break. She was pretty good at letting us know when she had to go, but still had accidents, too. I remember how much she would laugh when it was my turn to get her cleaned up, payback no doubt for all those times she changed my diapers.:laughing: