You did alot of explaining there when you simply could have just said "NUTS"Yep, that's exactly what I did.
I have now 35 years of experience handling her input and reactions, and I don't doubt for a moment that if I involved her before making the purchase, it would have been a world of trouble. Besides, it's not like it did her any harm -- the money's separate, I paid cash, and she generally gets the things she wants. For example, I just bought and a couple weeks ago installed a greenhouse for her exclusive "she shed" use, with electricity and all. You will note the tractor did a great deal of work preparing a 14' by 8' raised level bed on our sloping land, plus gravel and flagstone in this effort, and she liked the tractor throughout the project.
It is what it is.
BTW, I was 16 and worked for a hog farmer one summer. I went to fill up his gas pickup and they had these pumps that looked like old re-purposed gas pumps from a gas station. In fact that is exactly what they were. One of them said gasoline on it, so I gassed up the truck, put about 5 gallons of diesel in his truck (yes diesel).
Started driving down the road and that truck ran like absolute crap, barely ran at all but I got to the hog barns with it. When I told him what happened he asked which pump I used and I told him the one that says gasoline on it. And he said that is a diesel pump, even though it said gasoline on it. He said didn't you smell diesel when you were filling it up and I said yeah but I thought it was just from the other two pumps. I had no experience with diesel at this point in my life.
It fouled his plugs and he had to take it into a mechanic and they did something, not major, but it didn't destroy his truck.
I think gas in a diesel would be a whole other story Yeeeeek!