Obed -
You're experiences are sure an eye-opener for myself, and I'm sure many others. At one point I thought I would sell the house we're in, and use the $$$ to build our retirement house, but now I'm definitely re-thinking that strategy.
Great news on the power, but 44 days is the first week in December.....do you think you can get an occupancy permit by then? I think you mentioned being in by Christmas before.....
You're very lucky to have a wife so privy to the construction processes and such a hard-charger.....it's like you have 2 GC's on the job! I'm afraid I won't be quite as lucky as you down the road.......
Anyways, you're doing great, keep plugging away and best of luck with timely progress!
Frank
Frank,
At some point in our house building project, I'm sure I was thinking, "What have I gotten myself into?" But once having started, this is not the kind of project that you can quit. You have no choice but to keep going until you finish. Having never built a house before and then building this one acting as our own general contractor has been very overwhelming. You don't know how to build a house until you have built a house. After we finish this house, doing it a second time would be much, much easier. Not that we intend to do it again.
And there are lots of frustrations. There's the government red tape you have to fight through. In hindsight, the county would easily have given us a waiver to live in the camper while we build. However, since we got evicted from the lot in the adjacent county, we were leary of asking permission to live in the camper beside the house. Our county building commission and zoning office has been very good to work with. Yes, I don't like having to get "permission" from the government to build and live in my own house. But putting that topic aside, we have liked the county employees we've dealt with.
Unfortunately, the building inspections have been completely useless. The inspector allowed the original framer/construction manager to sidestep some glaringly obvious code violations. I actually wanted her to come down hard on him but she just rubber stamped everything. After we got a new framer, we got those issues fixed ourselves without the help of the county inspector.
Personally, I believe the inspection process in our county has absolutely nothing to do with ensuring quality homes that are built. The inspections are there for purposes of assessing the value of the house for tax purposes. Without the inpections, the county would have no legal ability to see the inside of a new home to determine how much to tax the owner but would have to tax the house solely based on square footage and location. Our county bases part of the property taxes on an assessment of the quality of the house (below average, average, above average) for flooring, exterior siding, interior walls, etc.
The government red tape frustrations have paled compared with dealing with the subcontracors. This project has taught me to listen to what the subs tell you with a bit of skeptacism. I'm certain many of our subs think that we are a pain in the rear to deal with. I don't apologize for this. We demand quality work and those who try to cut corners will find we will make them re-do the work. The agreement sub signs before they start working is to do the work according to the code and according to the manufacturer's instructions. When work is does not meet this criteria, we make the subs tear it out and re-do it. That policy has cost us extra because of wasted materials. You'd have a hard time trying to get the sub to pay for the materials you made him tear out; however, we don't pay them for the extra labor.
The three places I don't compromise are foundation/concrete, plumbing drains, and watertight integrity. We have made the subs re-do the work or do more than they intended for several items related to these items. For example, we made sure the framer's workers installed the windows per the manufacturer's instructions. I bet few if any of the workers had ever read window installation instructions; the instructions for our Anderson windows were quite detailed.
I don't make these comments to try to disuade someone from building a house but I do think a person should understand what they are about to get into if the person does decide to build. I suspect that after we get settled in the house and life returns to normal, that we will be glad we built the house and that we were as involved in the process as we have been.
Frank, based on your thread about building your garage, I believe you are quite capable of being the GC for building you retirement home. In your case, I'm not sure I would build the house with or without a GC while you are working overseas. My dad had the house I grew up in built by a GC while my dad was working out of state and that building project didn't go very well. Regardless of whether or not you use a GC, as the homeowner, you have to personally inspect the work if you want to ensure you get quality work done. Some of out plumbing drains below the basement slab would have run uphill if we had not personally put a level on the pipes ourselves.
Obed