I could care less how EA shows off their equipment. It's theirs to show case any way they want. Maybe you didn't notice EA is clear that they test their equipment to extremes to find design/material limits. Hooray for them!
What I am missing is why your stressing the same point over and over again to the same person who has clearly stated they are not plowing with a FEL.
There are more equipment use video's that EA's. They are just one data point. All of us here posting differing needs and uses adds data points. One person posting over and over again the same data point doesn't add data points.
"Hold my beer" examples count towards how not to do something. If a person can't see that they have bigger problems than worrying about grapple size.
Isn't the consensus here to buy one size tractor bigger than you think you need? How does that thought process suddenly fail when it comes to grapples? If you followed that consensus isn't your tractor big enough to run a full size grapple and still be well under lift capacity? What if you can figure out how to use that one size up tractor and a full size grapple to some new advantage? Maybe someone has?
The other side of that is if you running your lift capacity so close that a few pounds make or breaks any particular lift then just make two trips. Its no big deal to an experienced operator.
There is no single vs dual lid issue. Get the one that works for you and your uses. You seem happy with your skinny single lid, great, enjoy! Don't sweat my wide dual lid, you have no idea what uses I have in mind.
I see where you said "most" on the disparaging "American bigger is better scam" comment. That's twice that you've ran that by me. Is there some particular reason? Can you somehow deduce a persons nationality based on grapple choice? Can you also deduce eye color or how they comb their hair from that same grapple choice? I ask half joking but half serious. You could get into serious trouble making comments like that in a work place, even if it's not directed at an individual.
We should probably stick with the grapple usage/size discussion.
Tell you what, when my full size twin lid gets here, bring your skinny single lid down and lets have a Wicked Root Grapple Battle Royale! EA will love us and we will sell millions of grapples for EA! (You know I'm just havin fun here, right?)