Too late on using something square, I tried a male 5/8 bolt extractor and it's pretty much eating at the metal and the hole is pretty round at this point.
The old one looks like this
View attachment 671658 just found it on a parts site for the ford 4100. I'd already bought a new one last year and then put off changing it when I found the old one stripped. Just went out to the shop to dig it out and it's almost the opposite of what's in there.
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Don't remember where I purchased it from, one of the online tractor parts places. Both are listed as 3/4 - 14 NPT.
I guess the good thing is if it's the correct plug it's probably not galvinized and therefore might be able to weld a rod or old lug wrench to it. I don't think the welding would hurt the cast housing as long as I just weld a little at a time so that I don't heat it too much.