I get it.. My tractor loader can lift about 1300 pounds.. The skid is north of 2K ..and much more stable at that weight. But as you say.. I can't get out of it mid lift. My skid is brutal on grass.. So i rarely go on it with that machine. Asphalt is no problem. I use a grapple on my tractor and like the longer reach.. But the skid can lift and move more brush/etc faster. My skid is older so I don't need to wear a seatbelt to use it..or turn hydros on and off.. If the motor is running,,I have hydro power. Again.. It depends on your chores as to if I had to pick one what would it be..I try to not even turn with the skid steer, to keep it from tearing up the driveway, grass, whatever it's on, let alone run circles with it.
For basic loader work I find the tractor far more user friendly. Loading a dump trailer, for example, I can see where to put the next bucket load in the trailer.
The longer reach of the tractor's loader is also very helpful a lot of times, and especially when using pallet forks.
But my main complaint about the skid steer is the procedure required to get in and out of it. Gotta do the seatbelt and turn the hydraulics back on every time. Loading something on a flatbed can be quite complicated since if I want to get out and see exactly where things are, either the loader must by high enough or all the way down to be able to open the door.
With the tractor I can simply hop out and take a look, then get back in the seat without having to do anything special to continue. Plus, for the most part I can stay seated since I can see what's going on anyway.
My chores with the skid are moving and loading 50 yards of mulch a year.. For me the Skid is faster and lift is higher than the tractor I have. I can load to the middle of a F550 easily.
I occasionally move snow with the skid.. That is far better than the tractor.. Its warm inside the cab and can push a 8' snow box uphill full of wet heavy snow and stack it 10' high without any problem.
The skid spreads about 100-500 tons of gravel a year on my road and grades it as well. In this use, the skid is also far more efficient at moving heavy gravels than the tractor is. And much easier/faster to set a rough grade on the road.
Now the tractor.. I use it for general yard chores, I pick up downed tree limbs, Move mulch around my home, also use it with a LPGS.. The tractor with the LPGS is much better and faster than the skid for final grad on my road.