Advisors these days are under a lot regs as we get old to keep us "safe".
My Simple IRA manager retired but since I got the Leaf in 2019 I had told him to put some Tesla shares in my IRA because as soon as I got the Leaf I knew I was going for a Tesla when the kids get out of college. He said it was too risky for my sub $200K account.
About 5 years ago I went to Max payroll IRA deduction yet the balance stayed around the same balance so I called TD Ameritrade about self managing my account
They said no problem because it was initially set-up as a Self Directed Simple IRA account and the retired guy had noted I would be taking over. Of course they verified my info and had me confirm my balance. Since recently getting my Tesla I read on how to buy and sell in my IRA account and my 25 year old son was helping learning the technology.
There were about 10 different kinds of investments in my account so for practice every few days I would close a couple and watch my cash balance increase. At 72 doing this kind of stuff really made me nervous but I really wanted Tesla to cover my purchase price and taxes due to the IRS.
I averaged down and was able to get 1200 shares before depleting my account balance
Tin roofs in KY are getting very hot and as luck would have it at noon today I met my financial objective and pressed the hot tin roof eject button.
I have a lot of studying to do before risking retirement funds again in this environment.
Owning the best selling car in the world today helped me realize I wasn't likely to lose 100% of my retirement account and more like I did in a margin call 40 years with corn and soybeans
Best of luck getting the investment advice you seek. Make sure she or he is not a gambler.