Well for one, a Diesel will wet stack if run under too light a load.
I was running my 7.5 last summer during an outage and my draw for fridge and freezer and a bunch of electronics was something like 500 watts. To me, that's even a waste to have a Diesel running. I do run my water heater at half power, mostly to kep calcium buildup down and never ever noticed a loss of hot water (only me here and another on the weekends). The 7.5 handles the water heater and water pump without issue, but really, if push came to shov, I could shut them off. I have a pressure tank and the hot water stays hot a long time.
With the exception of effort required to manage loads, life goes on as usual and I'm not in the dark. Not in any room or buidling. Place is usually lit up outside at night, during an outage like a ball park, just because I can. All for 7.5KW.