</font><font color="blue" class="small">( Is it appropriate to confront ppl who seem to be outta line within the forums? )</font>
Arthur,
I'd have to say that generally, it is NOT a good idea to confront somebody you feel is being difficult or confrontational. There's a couple of reasons for this. First, you may not have accurately interpreted the post the person made. It's a shame that we can't "read" the way the poster would sound if he were speaking the same words he put in the post. We see this all the time. Someone mistakenly thinks a post was meant as a slam or a flame, when in fact, it was supposed to read as a joke or at least a tongue-in-cheek comment. I've fallen victim to this myself. /forums/images/graemlins/crazy.gif
Second, I don't care how reasonable and level headed a person might be about how they relate to others. When they've "had words" with someone else, it's natural to automatically assume that any post that person makes is intended to cause trouble.
And third, what you might think is argumentative and belligerent might very well be just another persons' poor way of offering their view on the topic. Maybe their intention was to be helpful, but they just didn't use the right wording for that to come through.
I will second RobS in the suggestion to notify the moderators. But remember that if you do use the Notify Moderator button, there is no message that informs us what your concerns might be. It only indicates that you feel there is some kind of problem. If you want to let us know what you really think, then you should send us individually a PM explaining what your concerns are. We'll review the thread, and we'll even discuss it amongst ourselves. Then we can privately contact the individual if that is the appropriate solution.