John,
KiotiJohn and David (dsgsr) suggest tractor weight makes a difference. I agree, but...I have a JD #8A hoe which is the predecessor to David's #48. Performance specs are similar. It was designed to fit the larger CUTs of the 90's era. I fitted one to my small 24hp ~2000 lb. JD855. (It was on the dealer's lot, and was selling cheaper than a new #7). I am pleased with the results. My little tractor wouldn't handle anything bigger, but I'm glad I didn't settle for the smaller #7 (#47 equivalent).
Poor technique, which you learn to employ less and less, can toss the tractor around a bit. But, I can tell by the power that a larger tractor would be prone to the same thing, as David suggests. I know there's a load on back when traveling around, but there's no hint of untoward instability during operation, even off to the sides.
My advice in buying a hoe is that you could buy as large a one as will fit, and your hydraulic flow will handle, and not be disappointed. Even with a hoe that's "too large" for my tractor, I run the engine at about 80% throttle. The response is snappy enough for me at that hydraulic flow rate.
OkieG