Do the math with the angles I mentioned, and try to get as long of a stroke as possible.
Think of it this way......It dont matter if you use a 4", 6" or 10" cylinder.
The distance the
grapple must travel from full open to full closed is gonna be the same. So if that given distance can be accomplished with a 4" cylinder.....you have a clamp force of x.
If you can squeeze a 8" stroke cylinder in there of the same bore diameter (same hydraulic force acting on the
grapple) You have essentially doubled your mechanical advantage. So thats like going from a 2" cheater pipe on your wrench to a 4' cheater and still applying the same force.
If you look at your design and draw the triangle....it looks like maybe a 7.5 degree mounting angle for the cylinder looking at the second drawing. I am sure you can confirm that with the software you are using.
Most grapples us a 2" bore cylinder, and most tractors run ~2500psi. So that cylinder is capable of pushing with a force of 7850 lbs.
But that cylinder mounted on a 7.5 degree angle....only ~1000 lbs of force trying to close the
grapple.....the rest of the force is trying to rip the whole thing apart. Now since the cylinder mount is about half way back the
grapple lid....you can cut that in half yet again. and you will have a meager 500# of bite force. Is that enough to "contain" a log or some brush....sure. Is that enough to clamp a rock or clamp anything and actually rely on the clamp power to hold.....absolutely not.